At last! The end of the sister spotlight series! If you missed the other three, visit
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here! My last sister spotlight is about my sister Sarah. The middle child. And yes, she has middle child syndrome haha. I was about 5 when Sarah was born, and Elizabeth was a little under 2 years old. I don't really remember much from when she was first born, but I do remember thinking how adorable she was. She was, without a doubt, such a cute and fun baby. She was even cute when she cried! She had the curliest hair (which I was so envious of-- it always looked so good!) and she was almost always smiling.
I mean-- look at that face! Side note: She still makes that face when she cries :)
Sarah was such an active kid and teenager. She was always on the move, always doing something (or five things), and really enjoyed being a kid. Even if she was playing by herself (which she sometimes preferred), she would explore and have such great adventures in our back yard. Nature and its wonderful creatures kept Sarah busy for hours. There may have been some dirt eating incidents and with my help, some capturing of newts and salamanders. I always thought Sarah was going to become an environmentalist. Not too long ago, land next to my parent's house was for sale. Trees were being cut down, probably to help sell the land, and Sarah took it upon herself to write some posters in protest. That's our Sarah, our spitfire!
Growing up, Sarah and I did not always get along. We get along better now, but we still have our moments ;). In some ways we are so similar, but in other ways we are polar opposites. Sarah is loud, opinionated, extremely intelligent (naturally), funny, outgoing, seriously independent, and lives life to the fullest. I, on the other hand, am more reserved and traditional. She likes to get a rise out of people, she is a contrarian, (seriously reverse psychology works great on her :)), and definitely speaks her own mind. When we were younger, I would get so annoyed with her, and I don't even know why! Maybe I just wished I was more like her-- so it was my weird way of showing it. Regardless, she definitely deserves accolades for being her own person.
Sarah found her real passion and heart when she switched from playing sports in high school sophomore year, to joining Drama Club. It was through theatre that she truly found her voice. We all knew Sarah could be overly dramatic (haha), but when she channeled her talents for theatre, we knew she had found her niche. As an actress, Sarah was poised, had great comedic timing, and did an incredible job at making her characters real and relatable. In high school, she was in a play called "Post-its (Notes on a Marriage)" by Paul Dooley and Winnie Holzman, and I was emotionally moved. Sarah played the role perfectly, and I really got a sense of the character which was really remarkable since all she did in the play was read post-it notes. If you get a chance, either watch this play or read this play-- it is truly touching.
Sarah continued with theatre for the rest of high school, and I am not sure if I have ever told her, but I think that was one of the bravest things she has ever done. She starred in countless plays and musicals-- oh did I mention she also has a beautiful singing voice?!! It was so great to see her so happy and enjoying what she was doing. She had numerous friends, and always had a great sense of herself. She never really cared about popularity, or "fitting in" or what other people thought of her. The funny thing is, I think that is why people gravitated to her so much. She was really friends with everyone.
Sarah has this sparkle and zest for life that is unmatched. She can make you laugh so hard it hurts, she finds herself incredibly funny, she likes to take "impromptu" pictures, she is a great supporter, but will be honest with you when you need constructive criticism. She will be there for you no matter what, but she won't sugar coat how she feels about the situation. She holds grudges against those that cross our family, and is not afraid to stand up for not only herself but all of us. She should seriously be a lawyer ;). She will fight for what is right, what is just, even if it is not the most popular idea or belief. She will be such an amazing role model for my future children and hers.
In college, she majored in Theatre as well as, Anthropology. She absolutely loved college. I knew that she would-- she was able to "leave the nest" and be on her own. She studied abroad in England, and traveled all over Europe. She certainly has the itch to keep traveling and experience other cultures. I would love to take a family trip to Europe, especially with her. I know that she would make it fun, historical and enjoyable.
Up until she went to college, I took having her around for granted. When I returned from college, Sarah went to college, and because she went to school in New Jersey, we didn't see her as much as we were used to. I had a hard time figuring out how to express how I was feeling to her. Instead of trying to explain how much I missed her, I tried to joke and be sarcastic about it. Looking back, I wish I had been honest with her. She probably needed to hear how much she was missed, and I should have told her.
After graduating college, Sarah came back home and worked at her usual summer job at a daycare. When the summer ended, she decided to search for a temporary job and found a nannying job. Sarah has been the nanny for a family of four since last Fall, and I have never seen her so engaged in a job. She is thinking about pursuing a career in speech pathology, and I think it would be a perfect fit for her. She is intuitive and is fascinated by kids and how their minds work.
Love is a tricky subject with our beloved Sarah. She loves being independent, and she loves her freedom. (We try to remind her that those are things you don't give up when you get married haha). However, I know that she does want kids in the future and someone to share her life with. We always joke with her and say that when she finds the one, it will be a quick engagement. She will just know and that's it! Any guy would be extremely lucky to even have the chance with her. I hope that she allows herself to fall in love.
No matter what the future holds for Sarah, I know she will conquer it all with spunk and gumption. I love you Sarah! Even when I don't hug you all the time ;)
I hope you have enjoyed this series! It has been great to share the most important people in my life :) Thank you for reading!